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Killing the Mood and Relationships with Sexual Neediness

Whether you entertain a different woman every night or if it has been ten years since there was a woman at your place, dont jump the gun with your need for sexual contact. Sure, she agreed to come by for one reason or another, but often women arent going to respond well if youre just there to push her toward the bedroom. Your attitude will make all the difference in the world when it comes to getting laid.

For the most part, women like to know that a guy is interested in her for a variety of reasons and she also likes to investigate the guys intentions. Set up your apartment or house to showcase the very best of you, especially when it comes to hands on activities like shooting pool, playing a game, or showing her your most embarrassing baby pictures. Spending a relaxed evening at your place is more likely to result in at least some sexual contact than spending an evening glancing at the clock and feeling like you are on the countdown to get her down the hallway.

Your mood is everything, and yet you feel as though youre going to burst. First of all, take care of your own needs before the night begins if it helps you to stay focused on her. Theirs is nothing wrong with a little self indulgent pleasure in order to keep your cool in the presence of a beautiful woman in your home. Second, respect her. I dont just mean to pretend to respect her in order to get what youre looking for. I mean really respect her and find things about her that dont involve her nakedness that really inspire you to be around her.

Let her know that youre interested but let her set the pace. If she thinks that you are all about pressure and timeliness, youre probably going to lose her and then you have to start from scratch. Take the time to let her hold the cards. Men who think of women as a conquest have the hardest time with this concept because they feel as though they havent accomplished anything. Women are much more vulnerable during sexual contact than men are and they have different emotional needs before a sexual encounter. The range of those needs varies greatly from woman to woman. But the end result is still very much the same.

The more relaxed you are the more relaxed she will become. When she first enters your home she is probably a little nervous and isnt sure what to expect. By having plenty of conversational material about, a range of different drinks, and of course a comfortable place to sit without feeling the need to be too close with an option to be as close as she wants works well. A sofa or an oversized loveseat works well. Mood music is good, even if it doesnt fit into that classical category of mood music.

If you can find something that she is really comfortable listening to then you are sure to help her feel at home. If you have a fireplace, use it if its appropriate. If you have a swimming pool or a Jacuzzi, let her know in advance that its an option. Focusing on having a good time instead of focusing on having a naked time is more likely to lead to some fun between the sheets. Sometimes you just have to bide you time and put a little effort into being a good guy first and a freshly laid guy second.

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